Fix fail_silently when session/client creation fails

Make sure backends actually fail silently when asked
(rather than raising inaccurate errors suggesting
coding problems).

Fixes #308

anymail/backends/amazon_ses.py

@@ -59,7 +59,7 @@ class EmailBackend(AnymailBaseBackend):
             self.client = boto3.session.Session(**self.session_params).client(
                 "ses", **self.client_params
             )
-        except BOTO_BASE_ERRORS:
+        except Exception:
             if not self.fail_silently:
                 raise
         else:
@@ -71,6 +71,22 @@ class EmailBackend(AnymailBaseBackend):
         # self.client.close()  # boto3 doesn't support (or require) client shutdown
         self.client = None
 
+    def _send(self, message):
+        if self.client:
+            return super()._send(message)
+        elif self.fail_silently:
+            # (Probably missing boto3 credentials in open().)
+            return False
+        else:
+            class_name = self.__class__.__name__
+            raise RuntimeError(
+                "boto3 Session has not been opened in {class_name}._send. "
+                "(This is either an implementation error in {class_name}, "
+                "or you are incorrectly calling _send directly.)".format(
+                    class_name=class_name
+                )
+            )
+
     def build_message_payload(self, message, defaults):
         # The SES SendRawEmail and SendBulkTemplatedEmail calls have
         # very different signatures, so use a custom payload for each